Ways of effect success

Life is not about getting what you want, is about becoming more. Success without fulffilment si failure, its not what you get its who you become.

What is really going to make you happy? maybe being sucessful, but it depends on how you define success. The real thing everyone is looking: MEANING. Success without meaning makes people miserable.

Here are some tips have success or a meaningful life.

1. YOUR POTENTIAL IS DETERMINED (OR LIMITED) BY YOUR SELF-BELIEF.

Creating breakthroughs, moving beyond fears and limiting beliefs, accomplishing goals and realizing true desires, turning dreams into reality, creating fulfilling relationships, and modeling the strategies of peak performers to produce a quantum difference in your life. The simple message is if you believe in yourself enough you can achieve anything. The only thing that’s keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself.

2. MOST PEOPLE HAVE SELF-DOUBT AROUND UNIVERSAL THEMES.

Ask anyone and most people will admit they lack confidence in some areas of their life. Self-doubt is around universal themes. These themes cross age, gender, religious, cultural and language barriers. Common doubts include ‘I am not good enough’, ‘I am lazy’ and ‘No-one loves me’.

3. YOU CAN LEARN MECHANISMS TO ELIMINATE SELF-DOUBT.

Immersion,where you break old patterns and build new ones by repetition. Progress is not automatic.

4. BELIEF IMPACTS ON MANY LEVELS.

3 things shape our self-belief. These are our patterns of physiology, focus and language or meaning. Where focus goes energy flows.

5. OUR VALUES AND BELIEFS SHAPE OUR ACTIONS.

You can vanquish whatever is holding you back from taking action. Eliminate negative self-belief and take massive action are his keys to success.

6. TO CREATE POSITIVE OUTCOMES YOU MUST TAKE MASSIVE ACTION.

Where focus goes energy flows, highlight why you need to know your outcome and why achieving this is a must. But many people fail to take the next step. They delay, put off and find many reasons or excuses not to act. Progress is not automatic and action is power. Take action, even if it is the wrong action, it is never a failure if you learn something.

7. MATCHING & MIRRORING CREATES CONNECTION, TRUST & EMPATHY.

In essence, you create rapport by adopting the body language of the person you are communicating with. Rapport is power and total responsiveness is created by a feeling of commonality. Put them into action next time you are communicating with someone on a one-to-one basis.

8. ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU FOCUS ON PASSION AND PURPOSE.

To have an extraordinary quality of life you need two skills: the science of achievement (the ability to take anything you envision and make it real) and the art of fulfillment, this allows you to enjoy every moment of it. Remember success without fulfillment is failure. Find your passion and purpose in life.

9. MODEL YOURSELF ON OTHER ACHIEVERS.

To gain improvements quickly and step up to a new level of achievement, learn from others who are the best in their field is the fastest way to achieve success. People’s lives are a direct reflection of the expectations of their peer group.

10. SUCCESS IS BUILT ON A HEALTHY, HIGH ENERGY BODY, HEART AND MIND

If you are not healthy - all of the above points are a waste of time. Your health is determined and influenced by your lifestyle.

Take care of yourself, your body is ultimately your most important asset.

To read more visit: www.tonyrobbins.com

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5 ways to live a more courageous life

The life coach and host of Breakthrough with Tony Robbins believes in living a passionate life, a life in which fear is a counselor, not a jailer. Here, he shows us how to “step up” during our most intimidating moments:

1. Don’t Turn an Excuse into an Identity
We need be careful of how we label ourselves, for example, saying “I’m an fearful person” or “I’m a weak person” or “I’m not a strong person.” Usually that label comes from your current or past behavior, but once the label becomes a part of you, it starts to control you. So what I try to get people to understand is: Hey, you’re not broken. You don’t need to be fixed. You don’t need a label. All you need to do is say, “I have to decide how I want to be now going forward.” 

2. Develop a Habit 
Courage is not the absence of fear. That idea is the biggest b.s. in the world. Fear is impossible to eradicate. If you were completely fearless, you’d be dead. People who are courageous are scared to the core—they just make themselves go forward anyway; they make themselves take some kind of action. Taking action, even though you’re afraid, is how you become courageous—because courage, like fear, is a habit. The more you do it, the more you do it, and this habit—of stepping up, of taking action—more than anything else, will move you in a different direction. 

3. Let Your Body Lead the Way 
Taking that action for the first time can be pretty rough. When it comes time to give the speech to the committee or snowboard down the mountain, don’t hesitate. Don’t start to analyze it. The longer you stand there, the harder it gets, because then your mind gets involved. If your challenge is mental, use your body. If it’s in the body, use your body more aggressively. At 17 years old, I was on my own, sleeping in a laundry room. I had no idea what to do. I was so depressed. Fear is physically debilitating. I had to defeat it. So I made myself run until I thought I was going to spit up blood. I got stronger in my body, which, in turn gave me mental strength.

 4. Write Your List 

Everyone has stages in their life when they have been courageous. It could be in a relationship or in a job. It could be as simple as negotiating with a car salesman. Write down a list of these moments, times when you acted braver than you thought you could. Some of these you may take for granted because you didn’t recognize them as courage at the time; you were merely doing what had to be done. Others may surprise you. But once you look at them all together, there’s always a pattern. You got obsessed with something you really wanted. Or you were concerned for another person. Or you knew you had the skills. You might have been scared to death, but you got up and did it. And here’s the secret: Once you see the common denominator, you start to realize, “I know what motivates me. I can do this again, in different situations.” Your use of courage ripples out. You start applying it in more and more areas of your life. 

5. Remember to Stretch
If you want to live a life that’s courageous, you’ve got to stretch, and to stretch means: When I can’t, I must. Every time you say, “I can’t do it,” you’re going to immediately say, “I must do it.” This is simple idea. I heard it first at age 16 from a close family friend named Art Williams. At the time, I asked, “Does that mean if I can’t jump off the cliff, I must go ahead and jump?” He said, “You’re not a stupid person, Tony. Don’t be stupid. It means if you find yourself saying I can’t do something, but you know it in your heart of hearts that if you do it you’re going to grow, you’re going to be a better person, it’s going to contribute to your family or to your kids or to something that matters, and you keep saying I can’t do it, there is no question—you must do it. You don’t discuss it anymore. You just take immediate action. You make the phone call. You step up in front of the room. You raise your hand. You do what’s necessary.” And I said, “That’s not a very safe life.” And he said, “If you want safety, go to prison. If you want a fulfilled life, you’ve got to step up.” 

Read more: http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Tony-Robbins-How-to-Live-Courageously/2#ixzz1rZCfkDhu

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